We are celebrating six years of marriage in Berlin today! While we’re experiencing the city with Grace and Jack, I am increasingly convinced, as I look over at Guion, that there isn’t anyone else I’d rather have with me during our European summer—and during the whole of my life, however long it may be.
This passage from Woolf’s diary expresses so much of what I feel about the daily work and magic of marriage:
Arnold Bennett says that the horror of marriage lies in its ‘dailiness.’ All acuteness of a relationship is rubbed away by this. The truth is more like this: life — say 4 days out of 7 — becomes automatic; but on the 5th day a bead of sensation (between husband and wife) forms which is all the fuller and more sensitive because of the automatic customary unconscious days on either side. That is to say the year is marked by moments of great intensity. Hardy’s ‘moments of vision.’ How can a relationship endure for any length of time except under these conditions?
— Virginia Woolf, autumn 1926 (A Writer’s Diary)
As all of the days pile up, I am inexpressibly grateful to be accumulating them with Guion.
3 thoughts on “A bead of sensation (six years)”
Lovely & extremely heartwarming! Great choice of excerpt. And absolutely dreamy wedding pics.
Great quote from Virginia Woolf – moments of intensity in the midst of the mundane
Walking down the aisle is no more a cakewalk these days…Cheers for this beautiful excerpt.